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Sheona
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Quote Sheona Replybullet Posted: September/03/2008 at 4:38pm

I'm a very new member here, but already I've had a few private messages along the lines of "you're hot, you're sexy, do you want to get together etc". Genuine conversation about mods and general interests are what I'm here for, and while I am flattered that someone might think I'm attractive I can imagine that I'll quickly get tired of reading through a huge list of messages about my "hot tits" to find the odd one conversation I would actually want to continue.

 
Basically, I get where Jenni is coming from. Perhaps the gentleman that started this thread didn't understand what it's like to receive so many messages that seem pervy, but we ladys much prefer normal conversation Big%20Grin
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Quote bluestar Replybullet Posted: September/03/2008 at 6:07pm
Well, if you post a mod, especially a genital mod, expect comments like that.
And you have pictures showing more body, than mod, so expect it. Or take it down. What are people supposed to think when you show half your body for a tiny tattoo?
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Quote kcir Replybullet Posted: September/03/2008 at 6:09pm
i love when people comment on my portfolio and tell me how great my pussy and tits are.   shows how much they care about the person behind the photos.
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Quote CheeseStix Replybullet Posted: September/03/2008 at 6:10pm
LMAO. But your pussy and tits ARE great Kcir. You know they're MY favourite. =P
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Quote danyellec Replybullet Posted: September/03/2008 at 6:26pm
why are people saying things like 'what do you expect if you're showing your pussy/tits off', a week or two ago people were defending the 'mod of the moment' genital pic (the super pierced dick)- as apparently it wasnt deemed sexual? genuinely curious here so please don't answer like i'm trying to be a smart arse :) x
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Quote CheeseStix Replybullet Posted: September/03/2008 at 6:28pm
A lot of what they're saying is about people who take shots of half their body, in a pose, to show off their genital mods. THOSE are sexual. (I don't like most of em personally, but thats not the point.)
A shot of JUST the mods however, isn't.
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Quote danyellec Replybullet Posted: September/03/2008 at 6:30pm
Ha I get it now, thanks CheeseStix :)

Personally the photos that make me laugh the most are the men who get their dicks hard to post a photo of their pa.... is it a competition?? lol

edit:typo

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Quote kcir Replybullet Posted: September/03/2008 at 6:35pm
one good reference would be the girl bent over to take a picture of a butterfly on her back (barely visible) that was winking at the camera with her brown eye if you know what i mean...

i'm of the opinion if the picture is focused on the mod, it's fine.  if you have to jerk off to show how big your dick is to take a picture of your pa, you need to rethink yourself. 

comments about the mod and how it looks are fine, but keep it in reason.  or funny.   personally i'm fond of "that's awesome, i want one," "looks great on you," "that fits your body well," or the always classic "ZOMG!  BOOBIES!"  no...wait...i never say "that's awesome, i want one."
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Quote Jess Mess Replybullet Posted: September/03/2008 at 7:06pm
Yeah i had some guy offer to pay for what ever tattoos i wanted if i was to be his girldfriend. That didn't offend me though it made me laugh.
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Quote Adam Replybullet Posted: September/06/2008 at 2:06pm
Just a little bit of my 2 cents...

1. If you post pictures of anything sexually related, you will probably get comments from people. I get comments, messages, and emails about "how hot" I am. My girlfriends over the years have not cared for how crazy the comments can get, but they (and I) understand that it's just someone expressing their opinions and to take it for what it's worth (btw, I have no genital mods posted). This is something I learned to deal with more and more after I moved to NYC. I've never been hit on by so many guys in my life. Instead of getting all pissy about you, you really have to learn to see the compliments in it. I'm not gay, but appreciate the fact that some people find me attractive and have the balls to actually say so. If you think about it, how often to you actually verbally go up to someone and tell them exactly what you think? For most people that takes a lot. Respect that more than what they say.

2. If you don't want people to comment on you in a physical sence, then you shouldn't post any photos online... anywhere. If you can honestly tell me that you get worse comments here than on myspace for the same photo, I would find it hard to believe.

3. Supporters have the ability to set Privacy settings on all their mods to restrict viewing to only their buddies, or other Supporters. This may be something you would want to consider.

Lastly, if someone is posting something blatently rude, like "I want to eat you vagina", or "I'm going to kill you". Then let CheeseStix know. He's the man for all personal affairs here now =) If he can't get it to stop, I'll ban them for being a douche (it's a button I have =).

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