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Total Mods: 22 Joined: October/18/2007 Posts: 3354 |
   Posted: February/02/2008 at 8:14am |
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he just wants to disagree with me
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well i might have somethin' to say about that, space man!
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Posted: February/02/2008 at 9:33am |
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Totally false, Jenni. why would I want to disagree with such cute eyes like yours? I'm just saying what I think.
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Posted: February/02/2008 at 9:36am |
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You've been picking on Jenni for days =P
And I can see the sense of a whole breast picture - so the viewer can see where the piercing is. If you posted a picture of a barbell through a piece of skin - people get confused. I've seen it happen, even when it's clearly written where the piercing is. I still stick by what I said previously, there are certain ways of saying things. |
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Dance Like Nobody's Watching. Love like you've never been hurt. And when things are low, smile like you've never done it before.
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Posted: February/02/2008 at 10:29am |
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There are certain ways of saying things? Well, I really don't have the feeling that the guy was overall acting bad, or using bad words, or not being polite. And by the way, he wasn't a bad person either, since he also apologized. Would Jenni not have been in a relationship, and would she have been interested by the guy, maybe she wouldn't have found his words that much offensive.
"Hi Jeeni,you look good in Blonde
 your a really hot beautiful girl,here is a  for you."Where is it so much offensive? Saying to a woman she's beautiful and offering her flowers are things I've already done in real life.
Dear blood angel, it you consider that way to act to be a bad one, you leave much room for masturbation and quite little for the future of mankind. Edited by Rouslan - February/02/2008 at 10:30am |
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Total Mods: 22 Joined: October/18/2007 Posts: 3354 |
Posted: February/02/2008 at 10:35am |
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because it's not proper conversation. it's not being interested in me because of my oh-so-witty personality. it's purely based on looks and i don't appreciate it.
if someone spoke to me like that in person i'd walk away, and that's how i treat it on here. i ignore it. |
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well i might have somethin' to say about that, space man!
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Posted: February/02/2008 at 11:08am |
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This is the one I was more... centered upon
"Hi Jenni,you have an amazing body,your figure...your hot!don't worry I'm over 18 so I could look at your beautiful breast hehehe!  " People say things like this when drunk - yes. (And he could've been drunk, but I doubt it) I've been called "hot" before, I normally say thanks and move on, and more often than not, delete the comment. Comments like that found on my profile/mods are people I've spoken too. I'm sorry if I'm possibly "old fashioned" but I don't consider somebody talking to me like I'm a piece of ass to be a way to get to know me. "you leave much room for masturbation" - if this is referring to me having to masturbate - I don't need too. I am in a relationship. I also don't think Jenni's relationship status has anything to do with this. |
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Total Mods: -1 Joined: July/16/2005 Location: Luxembourg Posts: 1412 |
Posted: February/02/2008 at 11:18am |
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Jenni, you have some ideas about love that simply don't fit into reality.
I will try to explain you my idea. Love, or what people call love, can be split into two different things. First one is love. Love for someone you cherish. Can be your husband, but it can be your child as well, or your mother, or a dog. Second one is passion. Physical attraction.
Physical attraction is something that will last no more than three or four years. It has been set in us by nature at ancient times when we were nomadic tribes, and when it was necessary for a man and a woman to carry the child all day long as long as the child would not be able to walk alone. That is, 9 months plus 3 years. Here you are. 4 or 5 years is a quite honnest duration for what people call passion. By the way, if you look around you, you'll see that a lot of people split when physical passion wanes.
So here is a cruel reality : a man's dick will never become hard for your oh-so-witty personality. Just for your eyes, hair, breast and whatever else you may be able to put in the balance.
You don't believe in what I say? You call me cynical? Ok. Then explain me what other information apart your look is used by nature for love at first sight? Or ... for instance, do you think that in a porn movie, it's the oh-so-witty personality of the actress that causes physical reactions in most men panties?
Like it or not, the reality is that physical passion (that most people call wrongly love) is 100% due to looks. A quite simple fact is that most men will much rather being treated like shit by a beautiful woman than having a real sweatheart twice your weight.
Therefore ... ok, he was maybe a little bit too direct for you. Or too young, or unexperienced. Or you're with a man and just not interested anyway, and it would have been a good idea for him to ask if you were single first before trying. But whatever you may add to your seduction tools, flowers, huge blah-blah and humor, money ... the goal still remains the same for a man. He saw you, he wants you. Simple as that. Everything he will do to end up in a bed with you is just tricks.
And your oh-so-witty personnality has nothing to do with it. Your personality is just what will make a relation on the long run possible or not. Nothing to do with what makes the (key) initial difference between a clear "never", and a "why not".
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Posted: February/02/2008 at 11:23am |
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"you leave much room for masturbation and quite little to the future of mankind" was just a nice way to say that the paroxism of your logics would make it unpossible for women and men to meet each other.
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Posted: February/02/2008 at 11:33am |
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lol i'm not on about love!
you hit the nail on the head there by saying "ok, he was maybe a little bit too direct for you." that was my entire point! i could get a message from who i percieve as the hottest guy on earth, but if all he says to me is "you are hot", i won't take any interest. i do not like that sort of attitude. you're right, physical attraction is very important, but i don't give a shit about who finds me attractive. hell, quite a few people do. it's to do with recieving messages from somebody who doesn't wish to have a conversation, but to just tell me i'm beautiful. despite being a blonde, Rouslan, i do quite like a good conversation. i speak to you, do i not? you have captured my attention with your constant banter and trying to beat down every point i have i trust you speak to me because you like my personality. whether you 'want me' is a different matter, but by talking to me as a real person, i have treated you the same.if i am spoken to like a sexual object, i will treat the other as a perv and don't try to speak to me like a sexual object now in attempt to get me to say you're a perv, as that will not work. oh Rouslan, you do make me laugh. |
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well i might have somethin' to say about that, space man!
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Total Mods: -1 Joined: July/16/2005 Location: Luxembourg Posts: 1412 |
Posted: February/02/2008 at 11:51am |
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"Want you" ? I'm not the kind of person who would ever show interest towards somebody involved in a relationship. Well I mean... of course it's hard to resist to the blonde power, but I'm quite well educated.
By the way... I'll tell you a secret. I'm here for the bodymod community, but this is not my only goal. I also improve my level in english. What makes me really happy is when people forget they're talking with a foreigner :o)
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