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TheSlipBack57
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Quote TheSlipBack57 Replybullet Posted: February/01/2008 at 4:03pm
ok...well that makes more sense. I change my stance and am with Jeni on this one...
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Quote x_Blood_Angel_x Replybullet Posted: February/01/2008 at 4:06pm
I know people appreciate the body wearing the piercing BUT, there are less perverted ways of saying it.

i.e "the piercing suits you" or "the piercing compliments you"

Understand what I mean?
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Quote merrry Replybullet Posted: February/01/2008 at 4:28pm
So, he likes my boobs! Pervy or not, I don't care....He doesn't know what I look like unless he recognizes my eyes...
 
and you are a beautiful woman, and you do have a nice body....am I a perv?
 
BTW, Some men only know how to compliment women in pervy ways, but if it makes you uncomfortable, just block them.  There are a few men blocked from my page.
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Quote Cale Replybullet Posted: February/01/2008 at 4:51pm

I'm going to have to agree with merrry.

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Quote xXxJenocydexXx Replybullet Posted: February/01/2008 at 6:01pm
Yeah, I don't think it's the fact that they like your body so much as the way that it's put.  'you're very pretty' goes over better than 'you have a hot body.'

And I'm sure that we all think that jenni is attractive.  Point is, you don't walk up to every hot girl you see in public and say 'hey baby, you're hot' without expecting some retaliation.  So try to follow the same rules here.
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Quote circle23 Replybullet Posted: February/01/2008 at 9:15pm
Im gonna side with Jeeenniii SOMEWHAT.. Basic message to MALE OR FEMALE commentors:: If you want to make a comment on a piercing or picture keep it clean and about the Bodymod not the person or the fantasy you may be enacting in your head. I constantly poke around looking for for rude or overtly comments. Saying oooh thats sexy is ok but mention the piercing too. an image can be sexy and theres nothing wrong with that. Now im also pro pervert but heres the thing THIS IS NOT THE PLACE FOR CASTING YOUR PERVERTEDNESS ON PEOPLE. theres a billion porn sites out there go spank away , if you are poor heres a few free porn sites for you youporn.com pornotube.com   both free both made for perversion. if you notice someone you are interested send a private message/inquiry ( not a letter explaining you are masturbating mind you , but an introduction) and see if they like you then you have phones and IM's to exchange. When i catch someone who constantly makes bad comments im all up in adams ear about 86ing them, but i do send a warning into profile comments section. keep it somewhat clean not every member is here for casual sex in fact i hope none are here for that. this is about bodymod community.
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Quote xavivax Replybullet Posted: February/02/2008 at 3:36am
Although I agree that unless you know the person and know how they feel about comments like that, those comments should have been kept out of messages
HOWEVER:
I would just like to say to Jenni that some of us wouldn't mind being told we have nice bodies for a change (be happy with the one you have), but yes, it could have been put better Nothing
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Quote Rouslan Replybullet Posted: February/02/2008 at 4:13am

I don't agree with Jenni.

Jenni, what is the picture of a piercing? A close-up. Since on your pic I can see your breast, and your piercings occupies 1/1000 of the picture surface, this isn't just a piercing picture; you wanted to put online the picture of your breast.
 
I find it somewhat hypocritical to show your breast and complain about "voyeurism", or hot comments when your behavior is at least a little exhibitionnist.
 
That's as if you would walk topless in the street, Jenni. Some men may feel hard in their pants looking at you. Some would offer you flowers and say things like "wow you've got a beautiful body". I don't think that would make them pervs. Definitely not.
 
Jenni, please think about it. When you're in bed with your man, you're happy to see him aroused by your beautiful body. Right? So why would another man looking at your body and being also aroused by it a perv guy? 
You really think that because you're in love with the first one, it makes his feelings pure, and since you don't know the second one, it makes his feelings perv ones?
Well... they just react the same way to the same visual stimuli. Nice breast ---> man's eye ---> cock hard. Raw facts about male sexuality.


Edited by Rouslan - February/02/2008 at 4:13am
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Quote iamstrangepants Replybullet Posted: February/02/2008 at 4:20am
Rouslan, why do you feel the need to disagree with every argument? i know you have your points of view but i've never seen any of your posts saying I agree or i'm totally with you on that.. just wondering
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Quote Rouslan Replybullet Posted: February/02/2008 at 4:48am

Well Mrs Strangepants, I don't know how it works in your brain, but in mine things are quite logical.

When I read something and agree with what's being said, I don't feel any reason to add anything. Putting emphasis on something that's true and considered true by everybody is of no interest to my eyes. When I read something and don't agree with what one person - or everybody - says, I put in my opinion.
 
But unfortunately and despite the fact that I'm using quite a cartesian thinking tool, most people answer to my words, but not to my ideas. Like you did right now.


Edited by Rouslan - February/02/2008 at 4:52am
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