there are play piercing needles out there, you can check out www.painfulpleasures.com for different needles and supplies. i prefer 27g needles for play because they are easy to work with in multiples. it won't be very visible just with the needle. smaller gauge needles will leave smaller marks. with 27g needles it is rare i have any marks left over the next day. some bruising may occur but not much. not much care is needed really. just clean the area, use the right needles (and tools if you wish) and wear gloves. play piercing isn't a very serious thing and there isn't much to it.

how big of needle can be used without requireing more aftercare can 14 guage be used a single needle or is the chance of infections get bigger if no jewelry is put in .

I frequently use 21 gauge needles for shows and such. I prefer the smaller ones because they don't leave any visible marks (other than some slight bruising sometimes) and they heal up within a few days.  Kweidog is right, there aren't any big issues with using larger needles, but they will scar more. If she's unsure about piercings, I would suggest starting small.


Not sure if it's the same where you are, but I get my needles from medical supply stores or the drug store. Ask for syringe tips, they come in various lengths and sizes

Very true, I don't even think I've ever been asked what they were for when buying them. I do get funny looks if I just need the tips and not the whole syringe though, or when I'm buying multiple boxes. It's almost a little scary the type of things anyone can buy here, but quite handy.