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Quote Rouslan Replybullet Posted: March/26/2007 at 7:07pm
... and for the last time, pierceradam, no WE are not that 5%. When you talk about what you think, what you consider true, what you consider reasonnable, what you consider just, it's always a sign of good mental health to use "I" instead of "we".
 
Furthermore using "we" instead of "I" when you express your ideas also shows that you're not that sure of what you say...
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Quote jojochey Replybullet Posted: March/26/2007 at 7:34pm
hey i got my tounge pierced when i was 11 and ny belly button when i was 9 yeh its young but who the fuck r they to judge rock on kid ROCK ON!The%20Finger
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Quote piercer adam Replybullet Posted: March/26/2007 at 8:40pm
my bad.I mean,I am a u.s citizen and we as u.s citizen's are that 5%.thank you for the grammar lesson I will keep it all in mind next time.i do agree with most of what you speak,but the industry in the u.s has laws.and no matter who you are or what your view of said laws are.if you are breaking any laws in what you pierce and whom you pierce what else are you doing?if the morals and ethics are set aside to give a minor what they want what else are they slacking on?is their shop clean?do they sterilize their  tools?are needles single use?do they know what they are doing?even if they answer with what i want to hear why should i believe them?they are already breaking laws!they have discredited them selfs.

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Quote piercer adam Replybullet Posted: March/26/2007 at 10:24pm
in my years i have seen many minors with messed up piercing and have  help them with various problems.i would have liked to see them wait for their piercings but what's done is done.i have refused  piercing service to minors in the past and then had them come in a few days or weeks and have helped them deal with mishaps arising from either the person piercing or having a friend pierce them.some not so pretty.it is my responsibly as a piercer to help in any way i am allowed to(abiding by shop policy's or laws).as i may not agree with some laws i am oblagated to up hold them.many cultures and countries have diffrent views on what is acceptable and what is not.
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Quote psycho*cherries Replybullet Posted: March/27/2007 at 2:06am
Originally posted by Rouslan

"just because a 10 year old will"....

A10 year old isn't a thing, or a creature that is sooo inferior to you. A 10 year old is a human being. A 10 year old is ALWAYS a different person. We are all different. Some 10 years old children are retarded, some are geniuses. Some can understand evoluated notions while some other ones may be perfect idiots. Some 12 years old girls are already able to act like adult women. We are all different, so I think that as a parent, the first thing you have to do is not to consider your kid as a "10 year old", but as a person, which in some cases may perfectly be able to deal with a piercing or a tattoo.


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Quote you-fail-me Replybullet Posted: March/27/2007 at 11:39am
Piercing kids, in my opionion, is never right. Wait until they are an adult when they are old enough to make their own decisions.
 
 
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Quote Rouslan Replybullet Posted: March/27/2007 at 2:45pm

Well, you-fail-me, what do you think is more serious? Choosing your studies and path in life, or having some piercing? Undoubtfully choosing your future career, right? If you consider them unable to make such a light choice like having a piercing, I guess that you'll be the one to chose their studies as well, and their boy/girlfriends, and so on...

Once again, some of us are mature enough to have sexual relationships at 13, some other at 23. Some people are able to work and pay their bills at 16, some other stay at their parent's home till 30 or even later.
 
In other words, do you consider that a guy living at home with his parents at 24, who has never had sexual relationship, who has never worked has the right to do almost anything he wants because 24=18+6 and that some other guy, living at home with his parents at 13, who will quit his home at 16 to start a job, pay his bills, meet a woman and have a kid at 17 can't have a piercing because 13=18-5?
 
Strange way to think. And when you'll have children, I guess they'll be happy to have a mother covered with tattoos, loving body mods, telling them that "piercing kids, in my opinion, is never right".
 
Ok, you won't pierce them, you won't bring them to a pro, and they will play with needles, get crap tattoos and nasty infections. Can't you really remember what you were thinking when you were 10 or 12 years old? I guess you already had body mods in mind, at least as a dream, or a fantasy. Have you ideas changed since that time?
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Quote Rouslan Replybullet Posted: March/27/2007 at 2:50pm
... and Rosie, your tattoos kick ass. Would you be my mother and tell me what you said above, seriously Rosie I would laugh at you till the end of time :o)
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Quote BxtremeDmodSxM Replybullet Posted: March/27/2007 at 4:25pm
Just because someone is 10 and gets a piercing does not mean that they will probably not keep up with hygiene and after care. Being 10 does not make you irrisponsible.By the age of 10 most youngins know whats right from wrong and can understand what is appealing to them. now...Tattoos on a 10 year old  should be more of an issue than a piercing. I'm sure if alot of you got tattoos at the age of 10 you might regret a few, or all of them.
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Quote 1piercedguy Replybullet Posted: March/27/2007 at 5:49pm
i'm sorry Rouslan much respect and all but a 10 year old is a child and a child needs boundaries he was 8 when he got them. 8 years old have you talked to an 8 year old recently i have and i would have to say i personally don't think they,on average, are smart or mature enough to make that kind of decision.When they get older and they still want it then get it call it a right of passage with age,at least from my prospective,and while yes kids will be kids and do as the please but kids still need boundaries so they will make smarter choices as they grow into young adults to spoil a child with every whim and fad only leads to more problems later
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