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Quote Mizz_Anthropy Replybullet Posted: March/23/2007 at 7:58pm
i think once a kid has their own idea of what they're style is like, they can get piercings, sure...i hate parents that try to restrict their kids...whatever, piercings can be taken out when they get tired of it...tattoos will have to wait. 
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Quote Tophurious Replybullet Posted: March/23/2007 at 11:25pm

There is no real difference in my opinion of allowing a kid to have ear piercings or eyebrow. I am a strong believer in personal choice. If a person of any age wants a piercing bad enough, they should be allowed. (tattoos are slightly different due to the permanence). Piercings are not permanent so if they ever decide against them they can take them out. It's stupid to ban facial piercings and not belly button rings... sorry if the grammar and flow is off... i am on pain meds right now.

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Quote dragonfly Replybullet Posted: March/24/2007 at 12:16am

as long as it doesnt affect their growth, it wouldnt bother me to have a kid that wants piercings. maybe one or two, not twenty or thirty until their older.i was 12 when i started piercing myself, so i figure if you dont let them live and learn a little, their going to go do the shit behind your back.

 a lot of schools are really against piercings. when we had our old principle at my shool, we couldnt had any kind of hoop in our piercings they had to be plugs, or very small or clear, stupid bullshit and it depended on whether or not that teacher liked you.
 
heres a story, about the kids doing shit behind their parents backs, i have a friend, shes 11. yes im 17, ok? shes adorable and worships me, but anyway, she was telling me about the time she went to the dentist and for some reason they gave her novacain, or however its spelled. before it wore off she stuck saftey pins through her lip, not once, but twice, she did snakebites. her mom flipped and made her take them out but she does plan to do it again next time she gets novacain from the dentist.
 
 
its just one of those fucking days.
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Quote OpheliaImmortal Replybullet Posted: March/24/2007 at 10:57am
Originally posted by Rouslan

Sort of funny to see how many old spirited conservative bigots you can find amongst young-looking members of what I thought was my community.
 
Those 20 y.o. people are so old that they probably can't even remember what they were thinking when they were 10 years old. Or maybe they have never been dreaming of mods at that age and only started at 17 to get those mainstream fucking belly piercing and kickass scratch tattoo from the first shitty parlor down the street to look as cool as the crappy TV stars for brainless children?
 
Don't worry, dear bigots. Your children will probably be soooo happy with their conservative education. You probably won't see them with piercings at ten, but chances are high that with such parents like you, they will smoke at 11, be alcooholic at 12, smoke weed at 13 and take cocaine at 14. Probably to forget about their - deeply stupid - parents.



So those of us who don't agree with this, who won't let our kids get mods at 10 years old, that makes us bigots & stupid parents? so becuase they don't have piercings at 10 that'll turn them into alcoholic, smoking drugies Disgust i fail to see reasoning in that.
No one said that from a young age they wouldn't TEACH their kids about body mods it's just some of us think 10 is a bit too young to actually HAVE mods.
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Quote BxtremeDmodSxM Replybullet Posted: March/24/2007 at 1:34pm
I think alot of you guys over reacted about this post-
as rouslan said "Those 20 y.o. people are so old that they probably can't even remember what they were thinking when they were 10 years old."
I did not think of it that way.
Thats a good way to think of this situation. I'm sure there are some among us who were into body modification at a young age and attempted to do something about it.
I pierced my ears myself at the age of 10. Kids will do or want anything at a young age- its where they start to become a individual or atleast try to.
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Quote piercer adam Replybullet Posted: March/24/2007 at 10:02pm
do people not know about federal laws?it is against federal laws to do intra oral piercings on a minor.it is considered sexual assault on a minor and the parents are considered putting their child in  a sexual situation.
not cool for piercer,parents and the kid is no cooler than he was already.
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Quote iamstrangepants Replybullet Posted: March/24/2007 at 11:43pm
intra oral? Like mouth? i know thats not true where i live (california) because there are MANY teenagers with their tounges pierced who are under 18.. as long as you have a parent with you.
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Quote socialcoma Replybullet Posted: March/25/2007 at 2:08am

since when is preteen drug use such a bad thing anyways? I'm glad I got most of my hard partying done early (teen years to be exact) so I could enjoy being an adult instead of spending my young adult years in some lame bar hanging out with a bunch of losers who can't handle their shit. I wish I would have had the chance to start partying in elementary school so I could have enjoyed being a teenager even more. 

I love belly button piercings. sexy

I definetly love impulsive teenage scratch tattoo's.

I love conservative bigots, everyone needs love...especially people filled with ignorance, greed and hatred.
 
I even love Rouslan even though he's been a bit grouchy latley.
they come with there umbilical cords in hand, looking for a place to plug them in
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Quote metalbabe Replybullet Posted: March/25/2007 at 8:09am
lately is an understatement but we still love him teehee

anyway. i don't know really.... i can understand the pro's and cons of this. i'd rather pay a good piercer than have my kid do it with safety pins/ sewing needles/ studs/ guns behind my back..... and maybe having piercings will have its same effect on this boy as it does on me i.e. it keeps me out of fights cos i'm scared they'd get ripped out.... which is a good thing cos they keep me out of trouble.

then again, i don't like seeing young kids with piercings. i did get my first 'piercing' at 12...... which hasnt healed properly up till ow cos it was in my upper ear done with a gun. stupid me. i wish i had a parent like this boy's that would have taken me to a studio to get it done properly. i got both my right nostril piercings done before i was 16. with a gun. luckily they healed fine. but yeah.

i don't know what i'd do. anything younger than 10 is a no-no methinks...... but as soon as they're in secondary school, i'd consider allowing maybe a nostril or 2. so basically 11 upwards can be ok. but before i find myself in that position i can't say anything. i'm not a parent. i only have a younger sister i can think of to put myself in this position. i told her to wait till she's older to get a 2nd lobe piercing. i would have taken her myself. but she did it with a stud. so idk......... we'll see.

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Quote wrestlingrox Replybullet Posted: March/25/2007 at 9:41am
I wouldn't let my child get facial piercings at 8 but thats just me. Like some pople have said, I wonder who pierced this kid at age 8 cause in Florida where I live you can't even get a piercing if your under 14 by a professional.
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