<<<  Return to the BodyMod.org Community
  Active TopicsActive Topics  CalendarCalendar  Search The ForumSearch  
General Talk About Anything
 BodyMod.org Forum : General Chit-Chat : General Talk About Anything
Message Icon Topic: "You're my best friend... Post Reply Post New Topic
<< Prev Page  of 10 Next >>
Author Message
Zal VII
Mod-let
Mod-let


Total Mods: 0

Joined: May/15/2008
Posts: 415
Quote Zal VII Replybullet Posted: June/13/2010 at 7:35pm
Originally posted by Druidess

I admire those who choose to have kids and do their best with parenting. No one is perfect at it, there is no manual. Kudos to those ho choose to try their luck at it. I. however, will refrain from such an adventure.


I beg to differ:


My name is Inigo Montoya, you killed, my Father, prepare to die!
IP IP Logged
Druidess
Mod Zentity
Mod Zentity


Total Mods: 58

Joined: September/04/2007
Posts: 1759
Quote Druidess Replybullet Posted: June/13/2010 at 9:59pm
^Oh my! I stand corrected. And I am oddly entertained by this.
When there is nothing left to burn, you have to set yourself on fyre.
IP IP Logged
LucieMay
Heavy Modder
Heavy Modder


Total Mods: 14

Joined: December/02/2008
Posts: 1258
Quote LucieMay Replybullet Posted: June/14/2010 at 12:54pm
I'm feeling less mopey and self pitying today. He was a cunt and I'm better off alone for now. Got lots to enjoy in my life and lots of time left to find a better bloke. :D
Caustic blonde.
IP IP Logged
holelottalove
BMod Pro
BMod Pro


Total Mods: 7

Joined: May/03/2010
Posts: 154
Quote holelottalove Replybullet Posted: June/14/2010 at 5:30pm
Originally posted by LucieMay

I'm feeling less mopey and self pitying today. He was a cunt and I'm better off alone for now. Got lots to enjoy in my life and lots of time left to find a better bloke. :D
That's the spirit! Big%20Grin
IP IP Logged
Zal VII
Mod-let
Mod-let


Total Mods: 0

Joined: May/15/2008
Posts: 415
Quote Zal VII Replybullet Posted: June/14/2010 at 6:47pm
Originally posted by LucieMay

I'm feeling less mopey and self pitying today. He was a cunt and I'm better off alone for now. Got lots to enjoy in my life and lots of time left to find a better bloke. :D


You also missed:

  • All men are bastards
  • You can't save someone from himself
  • Plenty more fish in the sea
  • Every cloud has a silver lining
  • Rome wasn't built in a day
  • It's a game of two halves
  • Swings and roundabouts
  • And many more.....

My name is Inigo Montoya, you killed, my Father, prepare to die!
IP IP Logged
LucieMay
Heavy Modder
Heavy Modder


Total Mods: 14

Joined: December/02/2008
Posts: 1258
Quote LucieMay Replybullet Posted: June/15/2010 at 3:38pm
Originally posted by Zal VII

Originally posted by LucieMay

I'm feeling less mopey and self pitying today. He was a cunt and I'm better off alone for now. Got lots to enjoy in my life and lots of time left to find a better bloke. :D


You also missed:

  • All men are bastards
  • You can't save someone from himself
  • Plenty more fish in the sea
  • Every cloud has a silver lining
  • Rome wasn't built in a day
  • It's a game of two halves
  • Swings and roundabouts
  • And many more.....

Haha! Ah yes all the cliches...
 
I actually don't think all men are bastards at all. A lot of women are equally as bad. I've certainly been no angel throughout my love life, even if I've painted myself as a victim. That was really the result of rejection and self pity.
Caustic blonde.
IP IP Logged
Zal VII
Mod-let
Mod-let


Total Mods: 0

Joined: May/15/2008
Posts: 415
Quote Zal VII Replybullet Posted: June/15/2010 at 5:15pm
Ah, it's imperative you see yourself as the victim in these cases. If you don't and you start blaming yourself, then the self-loathing sets in. I would be much happier if I had bullet proof faith in myself; regardless of what others think of me.
My name is Inigo Montoya, you killed, my Father, prepare to die!
IP IP Logged
ZombiePhlegm
Heavy Modder
Heavy Modder


Total Mods: 17

Joined: May/23/2009
Posts: 1793
Quote ZombiePhlegm Replybullet Posted: June/15/2010 at 7:01pm
^^^

The truth only as Inigo Montoya would speak it!

The Unbreakable!
IP IP Logged
CheapPerfume
Mod-let
Mod-let


Total Mods: 6

Joined: May/24/2008
Posts: 1867
Quote CheapPerfume Replybullet Posted: June/15/2010 at 9:57pm
Recently I've had a good look at myself and gotten in the habit of practicing self-reassurance and self-confidence. I don't want to sound like a hippie, but it helps. I'm willing to tolerate less bull shit in my current relationship, and I refuse to be put down, controlled, or manipulated because I think I'm a bad girlfriend when I know I'm not. I'm not perfect either - I apologize when I'm wrong. I just feel I deserve to be treated with utmost respect by the person who loves me.

I'd fallen into believing that I was a bad girlfriend if I didn't do things exactly a certain way (his way), and I'd let myself be manipulated to the point where I was always afraid he'd get pissed and leave if I said "no" or didn't do something he wanted.

I've found guys can be quite intimidated by women who are confident and self assured, which is most unfortunate. Not to come off as a feminist.


Edited by CheapPerfume - June/15/2010 at 10:01pm
IP IP Logged
ZombiePhlegm
Heavy Modder
Heavy Modder


Total Mods: 17

Joined: May/23/2009
Posts: 1793
Quote ZombiePhlegm Replybullet Posted: June/15/2010 at 11:38pm
Gotta echo CheapPerfume as well (I'm posting in this thread a lot. Too much that I relate to methinks!)

I feel like a bad person if I do something that my partner doesn't like regardless of how much I want to do it.

I'm suprised by the scarcity of males that have encountered this... I must be a real pussy!

The Unbreakable!
IP IP Logged
<< Prev Page  of 10 Next >>
Post Reply Post New Topic
Printable version Printable version

Forum Jump
You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot create polls in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum



This page was generated in 0.879 seconds.